unicornduke replied to your post “oh well
Nov. 13th, 2016 01:52 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
dragonlady7via http://ift.tt/2fMXtWn:unicornduke replied to your post “oh well how’s the writing going, you might ask, since you’ve had an…”
I’ll be honest, I’m not much for porn stuff 99% of the time but I’ve always enjoyed what you’ve written because its about feelings and fun and stuff just as much as the sex. idek you’re just really good at writing excellent porn that I enjoy.
Awwww thanks! That kind of means a lot. <3 <3 <3
I have some moderate anxiety over this phenomenon, is the thing, because sometimes I wish I could write G-rated stuff, and when people are like “well just edit the sex out” I’m like but then when do your characters have revelations about their emotions? I keep accidentally winding plot all through the porn, and so if I go back and excise the porn I have to come up with another time for that plot to happen, and it’s. It’s annoying, is all.
I think it’s similar to the earlier rant I had about how sometimes works of fiction, just like bouquets and wreaths and things, kind of take a shape, and you have to go into it with certain expectations and be open to taking another path if that’s not working out. I have to go into something telling myself “no porn”, I think, because if I put it in there and then decide later for external reasons that I have to take it out, it won’t work.
I do find that I can’t have porn without plot at all, though. It could be because of my particular niche on the ace spectrum– I’m demisexual, so I don’t really understand about having sex for sex’s sake, just like being bisexual means I don’t really understand what being monosexual would be like? I don’t know if that’s really what it is, but it’s got to affect things.
IDK. Anyway. (The current thing with Kes and Shara is Shara’s POV trying to imagine staying with one person long enough to watch them physically change, and it’s driven home by how rapidly her body is physically changing with pregnancy.)
I’ll be honest, I’m not much for porn stuff 99% of the time but I’ve always enjoyed what you’ve written because its about feelings and fun and stuff just as much as the sex. idek you’re just really good at writing excellent porn that I enjoy.
Awwww thanks! That kind of means a lot. <3 <3 <3
I have some moderate anxiety over this phenomenon, is the thing, because sometimes I wish I could write G-rated stuff, and when people are like “well just edit the sex out” I’m like but then when do your characters have revelations about their emotions? I keep accidentally winding plot all through the porn, and so if I go back and excise the porn I have to come up with another time for that plot to happen, and it’s. It’s annoying, is all.
I think it’s similar to the earlier rant I had about how sometimes works of fiction, just like bouquets and wreaths and things, kind of take a shape, and you have to go into it with certain expectations and be open to taking another path if that’s not working out. I have to go into something telling myself “no porn”, I think, because if I put it in there and then decide later for external reasons that I have to take it out, it won’t work.
I do find that I can’t have porn without plot at all, though. It could be because of my particular niche on the ace spectrum– I’m demisexual, so I don’t really understand about having sex for sex’s sake, just like being bisexual means I don’t really understand what being monosexual would be like? I don’t know if that’s really what it is, but it’s got to affect things.
IDK. Anyway. (The current thing with Kes and Shara is Shara’s POV trying to imagine staying with one person long enough to watch them physically change, and it’s driven home by how rapidly her body is physically changing with pregnancy.)
