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So one of the things I saw in some of this Fandom Discourse was that the
people in favor of blanket, heavy, subjective censorship on fandom events
seem not to actually understand what a DNW, or Do Not Want, is. There seems
to be a widespread issue where people are conflating people’s DNWs with
their triggers.
This has come up because in fic exchanges, the traditional thing to do is
that an entrant in the event will write down their requests, i.e. the
things they would like to receive, and also, separately, they’ll write
their DNWs. The things they Do Not Want to receive.
DNW is just stuff you don’t want to read. And it can be for any reason. Of
course if I have any triggers, I’d put them there.
But I’d also put down things I just really don’t want to read about. I
don’t want to read about weddings, for example, for many reasons but not
least among them is that I tend to find them tedious and occasionally
upsetting. I don’t like high school A/Us. I don’t like secondhand
embarrassment. And I don’t like psychological torture that doesn’t resolve,
or hopeless endings. I really don’t like Reader or self-insert fics. Not a
fan of songfics. Really not fond of excessive woobification of characters–
which I know some people like, and I can get why, but personally it gets on
my nerves.
This is a place where it is appropriate to be general and subjective and
say things like “no Dead Doves please”. That’s not censorship; if you don’t
want to read that stuff, you can just say so; someone who’s hellbent on
writing a darkfic isn’t going to pick your prompt. An individual requesting
not to read something is completely different than an institution
blanket-banning it, and it’s a bad-faith argument to pretend not to
understand the difference.
At any rate, none of these DNWs are moral stances. I’m aware this is
fiction; no matter what kind of material someone puts in a story no real
person is actually getting hurt by it. Tagged properly, nobody’s going to
be exposed to even fictional depictions of stuff they find upsetting. The
tagging’s the important part, and that’s what this is about, in part.
But more broadly*,* I think that there’s even debate around this plays into
a weird purity wank thing about triggers, where somehow people’s triggers
have become some sort of moral high ground. But there’s nothing moral or
amoral about triggers. The important thing when dealing with them and with
DNWs and with squicks and with people’s preferences, even, is being honest,
being respectful, and being clear.
Censorship tends to incentivize lying, making people tag stuff more mildly
than it really is– I think it’s much more of a risk that you’d accidentally
be exposed to something upsetting because the author’s trying to avoid
getting kicked out of something they want to participate in. Personally I’d
rather tag something more intensely than it warrants, and maybe disappoint
a reader looking for something harder, than to give it a lighter tag to
skate by and maybe have an unprepared reader find themselves in over their
head.
Being clear and honest about stuff is just the most respectful approach to
this. That’s where it’s appropriate to be subjective– on an individual
level.
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