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thebyrchentwigges replied to your post “quick check-in”

may I recommend that, if possible, you take tomorrow off? you’ve had a big trauma and you’re injured. you need time to heal, and there’s lots of ways to slip up processing a slaughter. and rubber gloves + hard work + blisters = recipe for PAIN. please look after yourself!

Ah, we were already short three people for slaughter day. I wore dishwashing gloves for the whole setup, and then switched to disposable gloves once we were in it. Since we were missing three people, two of whom normally worked in the kill room, and I knew gloves would make me a very slow and poor eviscerator, I moved over to the kill room and for a while I was the only person doing the work of all three missing people. But it meant my hands weren’t getting wet. Heads and feet removal was fine; I’ve been too squeamish to do it in the past but in the face of necessity I realized it’s not that hard to do. But cutting out the preening gland was nearly impossible to do in gloves. I still kept getting stuck doing it.

Since with my absence we were short two eviscerators, the line backed up there enough that it didn’t matter that I was very slow on that table trying to work for three. Finally our backup eviscerator showed up, and they were able to catch up and send me someone to help with heads and feet. So we still finished processing by a little after 11am. And in the afternoon, packaging doesn’t necessarily involve getting one’s hands wet– my job is mostly dry, I put the labels on– so I was able to do my normal duties.

Very excitingly, we delayed our packaging to go and help a visiting work crew (paid for by a state grant!) put the plastic onto the brand-new enormous 40x100 foot greenhouse. The work crew were Old Order Mennonites, which was so interesting, I didn’t know there were any around! They spoke strangely-accented English, and I was wondering at it until I heard them talking to one another in what has to be a dialect of German. So very interesting, and they were very efficient workers– but it was breezy, and handling greenhouse plastic in a breeze is something so dangerous to do with too few people, so we took our whole work crew to act as human sandbags, and got it all done in an hour. And then we were still done with packaging by 3:15! Not too shabby.

So– I mean, I can’t really ever take slaughter day off, it’s always such a Thing, but. Sister was very solicitous about not making me wash anything, so my hands wouldn’t get messed-up.

I am mostly not feeling traumatized, just a little sad, though I haven’t tried to start a fire in a woodstove since then so we’ll see how I feel about that then. I still sort of can’t believe my hair didn’t get singed. Finally I got all the smoke smell out of my hair and my skin, at least. 

I’ve discovered when you say the phrase “tiny house” people lose their goddamn minds. The current tentative plan is to maybe construct a multi-purpose small building in the slope next to where the yurt was, and have part of it act as a sugar shack during maple season, and then part of it be my little guest apartment, and there are numerous people already clamoring to help, including an actual licensed architect. So. I would feel a great deal less awkward if it wasn’t just for me, if it was something broader than that– it was already a small agony for me twice a year to have to ask people to help me set up and tear down, so anything where it’s not about me is a huge bonus. I want a space i can use and I don’t want to be trouble, that’s basically the long and short of it, but if it was an adorable tiny house I’d be delighted. 

Farmkid keeps pointing out that whatever the space is, there needs to be a guest bed for her so she can have sleepovers. Which is hilarious, because she lives here, and there’s also already a camper, and a treehouse under construction for her to do exactly that if she wants, but listen she is an angel who deserves every joy and of course I will make a space for her to sleep over if she wants. 

Anyhow. I gotta go, hopefully the power adapter Dude mailed me for this computer will get here today but at the moment I am scraping the battery down to the bottom to post this, so.

In parting, a photo of greenhouse plastic application featuring B-I-L and Veg Manager:

(they’re up pretty far off the ground! it’s a tall greenhouse! VM is SO excited, it’s so much space!)
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thebyrchentwigges replied to your post “elfhood”

ELFHOOD. INSERT ELF A INTO ELF B. THE PHIAL OF OIL. Such were the tales of ages past!! :D

YES I KNEW THERE WAS STILL SOMEONE ABOUT WHO WOULD REMEMBER!!!!!!!!!! omg i feel so validated
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clotpoleofthelord replied to your post “not shaped like a human”

I KNOW HOW THIS GOES SOMEWHAT. I’m a 32G and it’s a goddamn nightmare finding bras that fit. Have you tried Bravissimo? I’ve had some luck with theirs (and also FREE RETURNS)

I have actually GONE TO BRAVISSIMO IN PERSON. I shopped there before they offered free returns, Back In The Day, I don’t want to talk about how much I spent, and I went to London in ‘08 for other purposes but while I was there, I got sized there.

They did not have a single bra in stock in their flagship London store that fit me. This was exceptionally unfortunate, as I was in London to attend a wedding, and had brought a dress for which I was actually counting on finding a bra to go with, since They Have Great Bras in the UK, you can get Anything in London, except as it turns out you CANNOT get a plunge-front 32J in any color or make for any kind of money, so I had to safety-pin my dress to my old fucking imported bra I’d brought intending to abandon it. Amazing! Yes, my boob fell out of my dress in front of the father of the bride after I’d had basically an entire bottle of wine on my own, but it didn’t matter because so had he, and he just laughed, so. THANKS BRAVISSIMO.

I also went to, I forget the name now, the lingerie-maker who has like made bras for the Queen and stuff (maybe rigby and peller? sounds familiar?), and they were also very helpful, and also, womp womp, did not have a single bra in stock that fit me. (”We could have this one altered, it would take a week. Are you local?” “No.” “… I could pin it out for you so you could have it altered when you got home.” “Mmmm… no.” [It was over a hundred dollars, with the exchange rate of the time. For a bra that didn’t fit me. I can get a bra that doesn’t fit me for a lot less than that any old where.]) At least they helped me understand that I required a specific shape of bra for optimum support. I’ve never really found one that fit properly, but the ones with that specific shape (three-part cups, with a non-stretch component as the outermost part nearest the armpit, if you were curious– oh, like this one) are the most fault-tolerant.)

thebyrchentwigges replied to your post “not shaped like a human”

er um are you familiar with the world of full-bust style blogs? hourglassy? curvywordy? fuller figure fuller bust? they may have the bra hook up for you…even if you have to go to Poland for it! Ewa Michalak maybe…and I know about these blogs for two reasons, the left one and the right one ;D

Oh gosh. I used to follow a lot of blogs. I knew all the great URLs, I knew all the sites that carry all the brands. I used to be super up on all of it. And then I stopped caring, because it was so goddamn futile. I’m just so old now, and so tired. I’ve imported bras from all over. You can get more of them domestically than you used to be able to. It’s great. It doesn’t matter.

They always poke me in the armpits, slide off my shoulders, stretch out funny… fit for a while, then don’t… the underwires dig in and leave red marks on my ribs… eventually the underwires escape their channels and stab me in the chin… and no matter how exquisite the thing looks when I put it on, I’m never happier than when I’m taking it off. 

Fuck it, I’ll just buy cheap bras that don’t really make that much of an effort to fit, as long as they don’t actively hurt me. That’s the point I’m at now. Fifteen years ago, I spent cumulatively thousands of dollars trying to find The Perfect Fit. Now I’m just old, and fucking tired. I’m glad there are a new generation of blogs now. I just don’t think I’m going to bother throwing myself in to caring about it again, because all it got me was a drawer full of thousands of dollars of ill-fitting overpriced lacy shit and no actual improvement in my self-esteem.

I have never. Never! Owned a bra that actually fit me, was comfortable to wear for more than an hour, and actually looked nice in any way at all. I can pick maybe one of those three features; I’ve never even had two out of three, and I’ve actually never had number one at all, really. 

And after literally decades of effort, I think maybe I’m finally ready to give the fuck up.

thesacredreznor replied to your post “not shaped like a human”

that sounds hellish! makes me grateful that mostly i fit regular (plus sized) bras. although i do frequently get the issue where the cups are too far apart for me, probably because i am a short fat.

I am of perfectly average height, and of just slightly over average girth, and I just. Have a freakishly small ribcage, and narrow shoulders. (And you’d think, oh, primo candidate for racerback or halter styles! Unforch, those are the worst, because I get pinched nerves and then can’t function. Amazing!) 

I am not designed to wear bras. Unfortunately, I need bust support, or I can’t comfortably descend stairs. So, I have to. 

I’ve just given up on being “flattered” while I do it. If I just wear two shitty bras, a plain ugly one and a cute lacy one, then I can feel cute, and probably not die of discomfort. That’s all I get, nowadays.

It’s just so easy to get sucked back into spending money on wishes and dreams and “empowerment” and “you’ll look so much better if you” you know what, I look better with these hundreds of dollars in my pocket, thanks. 

It’s just such a compelling dream. And the sewing blogs make it look so easy. But it is not. It will not work. I need to stop torturing myself. I spent hours just last night going through herroom dot com looking at all the beautiful– oh the lace– oh they have a universal sizing system– they do the conversion for you– that’s great– look at– oh– wow— that’s— wow I have like no options and actually, I’ve bought that one before, it did Not hold up. 

NEVER MIND.

(Of course I downloaded the one free pattern and of course I’m going to try to grade it up and of course it’s not going to work! But I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t periodically torture myself with this absolute fucking horseshit now and then.)
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