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via http://ift.tt/2cWoWbD:chippanfire replied to your post “ughhhhh i brought all this shit to dye and print shirts for the farm…”

Lying there sounds extremely reasonable. Not having all your stuff is the worst. Although I will also ask, because I am a terrible person who has to offer suggestions at all times, is the dude in buffalo and if so could he send them to the farm?

I was only there for a week, and I wouldn’t know where to tell him the things were. (and I’m just now scrolling back and finding replies I missed at the time, so, hi!)

It turns out, they were with me in the bottom of a bag I searched but not thoroughly enough. The whole time.

But it’s okay. I brought them back with me and now the shirts are in the washing machine getting dyed. I couldn’t use my sister’s machine, it’s a fancy computerized one that doesn’t let you do things like, oh, add the soda ash after half an hour, like you have to. i’d’ve had to do it in a pot and it would’ve been splotchy and difficult. So this is better.

However. I left the stencils I cut back at the farm, so I can dye the shirts here, but can’t finish them. 

I sort of can’t win. 

I’m sort of really not cut out for this nomadic lifestyle. I want to live and work all in the same place. But I don’t want to leave Buffalo, and dude won’t leave Buffalo, and I don’t want to try to have a long-distance relationship. And the farm is where it is, that’s also non-negotiable. And working on the farm is the only meaningful thing I have going, semi-professionally.

 So commuting it is. And that means I never have the shit I need where I can lay hands on it ever ever ever. And so I should do a massive life-decluttering, and get rid of most of my possessions. But I am naturally the type who is a hoarder, and I tend to use the hoarded things just often enough that I can’t bear to get rid of everything. 

(Like. Mom’s old insulated drapes have been living in a box in my attic for a solid five or six years, and I just made them all into yurt insulation, saving myself hundreds of dollars I don’t have to spend on fabric. And middle-little sister and I just solved a problem Farmsister was having by hauling out all the weird glass jars middle-little has been hoarding for years, and decorating them. We’re not the kind of hoarders that keep, like, cats or garbage. We just have a deeply-conditioned genetic predisposition that’s been honed by experience into hanging fiercely onto things we think we might use later.) 

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