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we should just do each others dishes more. there is no punchline at the end of this text post. dishes suck and they’re often the first thing that falls to the wayside when someone is depressed, or having a bad time, or just plain busy. i cannot tell you how many times i have just had my glass of wine or a joint standing at the kitchen sink - sure, we could sit on your couch, but if we’re just going to talk and vibe anyway, i might as well do these for you. it’s an act of simple love. i never feel more grateful than for the people who come into my home and share domesticity as friendship. it’s neither a burden nor a chore to help; theyre not my dishes. they’re yours. and we can do them together.

oh my gosh this is what i do for people i love too. i’m bad at doing mine but. I’ve learned where all three of my sisters’ dishes go, and I’ll just… empty the dishrack, or load the dishwasher, or unload the dishwasher, or just do up whatever is in the sink, and then I’ll clean the sink too, and it’s what I do if I’m there long enough, and that’s the level I love to be at– not only do you not feel you have to frantically clean when I come, I come often enough that I can contribute to the routine, and give you a little more time to sit and chat with me. That’s what I want.