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ineptshieldmaid replied to your post:I wrote a niceish but sort of crisp response along…
Ignore my previous reblog if it shows in notes. Have now observed the comments and they actually seem reasonable. Not that you’re obliged to edit finalized work in response to them, that’s not necessarily how it works: but the comments are contextualised critique which is reasonable to make. I’ve had that sort myself.
If I reframe it in my head as “I am worried you won’t resolve these things” then I can make it seem sort of reasonable? But it’s just– either you trust the author or you don’t, and i do feel that it’s really rude to come and leave a long note that’s like You better fix these things because you’ve handled them poorly! when basically every one of them was something that’s part of a long game?
I’m super offended and I feel like I’m justified in being super offended, because that’s not the kind of thing you just– say? But maybe I’m being oversensitive after all. I don’t know. I’m just a dude, an anxious dude, who has put a shitload of work into a thing and is crushed by the assumption that I just hadn’t thought about what I was doing.
ineptshieldmaid replied to your post:I wrote a niceish but sort of crisp response along…
Ignore my previous reblog if it shows in notes. Have now observed the comments and they actually seem reasonable. Not that you’re obliged to edit finalized work in response to them, that’s not necessarily how it works: but the comments are contextualised critique which is reasonable to make. I’ve had that sort myself.
If I reframe it in my head as “I am worried you won’t resolve these things” then I can make it seem sort of reasonable? But it’s just– either you trust the author or you don’t, and i do feel that it’s really rude to come and leave a long note that’s like You better fix these things because you’ve handled them poorly! when basically every one of them was something that’s part of a long game?
I’m super offended and I feel like I’m justified in being super offended, because that’s not the kind of thing you just– say? But maybe I’m being oversensitive after all. I don’t know. I’m just a dude, an anxious dude, who has put a shitload of work into a thing and is crushed by the assumption that I just hadn’t thought about what I was doing.
