I have a standing, written request for Tues and Thurs evenings off from work, "as often as possible" since I know with such a small staff things are bound to come up from time to time. Well... The guy they hired after me likes working the morning shift, so for 3 weeks now the scheduling manager has given him the Tuesday morning shift I used to regularly work, and has put me on the closing shift.
Last week his meant I hurried and hustled and made it to practice juuust in time to get credit for attendance. But this week, there are 2 committee meetings before practice, that Z and I both should attend. And Z has a work meeting at 2, so I have to take the bus. I'll have to miss the meetings, sure, but his attendance at them means he can't pick me up. So in addition to leaving the house at 12:30 to get to work by 2, I'm also going to have to walk half a mile and wait half an hour in the dark to get home after 10 pm, completely missing every single one of my obligations on this evening which I requested off in writing.
I enjoy my job-- I truly, honestly do-- but I cannot do this sort of thing every week. Why are my needs intrinsically less important than those of a man? I have to, have to find another job, as soon as possible.
Last week his meant I hurried and hustled and made it to practice juuust in time to get credit for attendance. But this week, there are 2 committee meetings before practice, that Z and I both should attend. And Z has a work meeting at 2, so I have to take the bus. I'll have to miss the meetings, sure, but his attendance at them means he can't pick me up. So in addition to leaving the house at 12:30 to get to work by 2, I'm also going to have to walk half a mile and wait half an hour in the dark to get home after 10 pm, completely missing every single one of my obligations on this evening which I requested off in writing.
I enjoy my job-- I truly, honestly do-- but I cannot do this sort of thing every week. Why are my needs intrinsically less important than those of a man? I have to, have to find another job, as soon as possible.
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