Oh, Person B was super-rude, ignored your clear statement and took your PRIVATELY POSTED PREVIEW to frankly insert themselves into a conversation that wasn't about them to start with. They could have WAITED until your fic was done to have that conversation, ffs. "other people will enjoy the post" - yes, you too Person B could have waited to ENJOY THE POST.
So yes, I am not at all surprised that you are hurt and upset.
Also, them apologising doesn't take away the fact they hurt you by being super-rude, and it's ok to need some time and not be ok with it just because they apologised. Someone steps on your foot and says sorry, the foot is still bruised and needs time to heal.
Also also, the person being too much and socially inappropriate here is NOT YOU.
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Date: 2021-08-14 08:16 am (UTC)Oh, Person B was super-rude, ignored your clear statement and took your PRIVATELY POSTED PREVIEW to frankly insert themselves into a conversation that wasn't about them to start with. They could have WAITED until your fic was done to have that conversation, ffs. "other people will enjoy the post" - yes, you too Person B could have waited to ENJOY THE POST.
So yes, I am not at all surprised that you are hurt and upset.
Also, them apologising doesn't take away the fact they hurt you by being super-rude, and it's ok to need some time and not be ok with it just because they apologised. Someone steps on your foot and says sorry, the foot is still bruised and needs time to heal.
Also also, the person being too much and socially inappropriate here is NOT YOU.