Sep. 25th, 2017

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a vignette: well, first, background: we had a good week for flowers, sold almost entirely out at market. So, no big arrangements came home. Those are the ones my sister decorates her house with because what else do you do. 

another background: as we were arranging flowers Friday afternoon (and Friday afternoons are a bit exhausting, because it’s quitting time for everyone else, and we’re stuck there still working, and it looks like fun because it’s flowers but it’s sort of mournful because everyone comes by on their way out for the weekend and looks so happy, and we still have eight… seven… five… two buckets to fill, endlessly…), the vegetable manager came by cradling an eggplant in his hands. It was a beautiful eggplant. He just wanted to show it to us, I suppose; he’d seen it, unharvested, in the field, and it was so perfect– the surface was slightly flawed in one spot, but it was a beautiful shape, a perfect fullness, a classic eggplant. What will you make with it? my sister asked. (She took his portrait with this exemplar of his craft and Instagrammed it, and it looks like a professional shot.) Oh, he said, probably eggplant parmesan, I haven’t done that yet this year. oh, I said, I love eggplant parm so much. i never make it, but it’s like, my favorite. you should make it for all of us. oh, he said, ha ha, i’d need more than one eggplant. I’m kidding, I told him hastily, Lord, I wouldn’t actually demand that you cook for me, I’m not an animal.

Well. He comes to my sister yesterday and says, I’m making eggplant parmesan for all of you Sunday night, and in fact he did, and he also made tiramisu, including making the ladyfingers himself, so.

Anyway. Such a nice dinner needs flowers on the table, my sister decided, so she rediscovered that place inside herself that does actually enjoy making flower arrangements, and went out and harvested just a handful of flowers, and made herself an arrangement for the dining room table, since she’d already set the table with a cloth and napkins and the good china and all– because, being an adult, she owns these things, and so why wouldn’t she break them out for every Sunday dinner?

So, it’s 5 pm, Veg Manager is banging pots around cheerfully next door, periodically coming by to borrow very promising things from my sister’s much larger kitchen. Sister has her flowers laid out on the kitchen counter and is arranging directly into a vase.

She trims all the stems, picks up the flowers, is placing them one at a time into the vase.

A little cloud of insects and spiders go scurrying off across the kitchen counter, having been on the flowers when they were harvested, and now seeing an opportunity to jump ship.

I watched this, and she watched this, and she said, “I’m just– going to let this happen,” because what else was she going to do?

I don’t know what gardeners do; we usually harvest into buckets that chill in a fridge overnight (if you see “conditioned” flowers for sale, that’s what that means; it does prolong their bloom period significantly), and we arrange on a table in a barn, so we notice bugs once in a while but it’s nothing like this little scatter pattern of many-legged refugees was. It was impressive. 

Hours later, after a sumptuous repast (made of that perfect eggplant and some of its friends!) and much conversation, my sister hastily drank the dregs from a water glass on the table and put it down on the floor inverted. “What,” I said, and then I saw the spider, a goldenrod crab spider I’d seen run off a zinnia, clamber up the side of the glass. She took it outside and put it into the hostas. We felt better. 
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tobermoriansass:

One of the biggest flaws of the expanded universe and like the whole clone wars conflict is that fucking everything is manipulated and orchestrated by palpatine which means every single political conflict is in some way or the other, artificially manufactured. Which also makes the pay off nonexistent bc this whole thing implies there’s no legitimate grievances to be resolved, only created ones and that there are no populist movements that oppose the republic on grounds of legitimate cause because all of them without exception are just manipulated and so are suckers for palpatine.

It just makes the political backdrop incredibly frustrating because you hint at legitimate resentment and then veer away from any critique of the republic because in the end, all the opposition to the republic was fake anyway.
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I officially feel better about the quirks of both my mother and my mother-in-law now. Thank you for that.

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lordy

It’s not that I have no drama at all in my family. But most of my mother’s family is dead– in fact, she’s all that remains, so the end-of-life drama of Grandma not really losing her marbles but getting so old she couldn’t cope is a faint fond memory, and my eccentric uncle dying abruptly of cancer he’d procrastinated diagnosing until it was in the end stages was kind of short-lived.

(Yesterday at brunch I met another friend of his– one of those names I vaguely knew, one of those Troy people who sees me, recognizes me because I’m the spitting image of my mother circa 1977, and knows who I am, but who I know only third-hand by name and not on sight. He said, I always meant to take one of his tours of Washington Park, but never got around to it, and I regret it all the time. He’d all but written a book, I said; Mom found his research, three organized boxes all meticulously laid out, and hasn’t had the heart to go on and write the book. The friend looked pained; I don’t know that he’d known that. Mom hasn’t felt able to talk about it much.)

Anyway. So we’re low on drama largely because of little opportunity for such. But, more importantly maybe, my mother is a Type A competitive person who decided as soon as my older sister got engaged that she was going to be The Best Mother-In-Law Of All Time, and has applied herself studiously to that pursuit in the intervening decade. It can be a little much, but you only have to kind of peek at the alternatives – my older sister’s mother-in-law is a real prize too– to understand that being a little intense is hardly the worst thing a person can be. (Older sister once came home after a two-week work trip for the Army and had her four-year-old marvel that she’d forgotten how to brush her teeth, because Nana had never one time had her do it.)
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I did not realize it only started in 2009.
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Ha Bun Shu: A Book of Wave and Ripple Designs by Mori Yuzan, 1919

This book brings together a wonderful selection of wave and ripple designs produced by the Japanese artist Mori Yuzan, about whom not a lot is known, apart from that he hailed from Kyoto, worked in the Nihonga style, and died in 1917 (which would make this a posthumous collection). Similar work is also collected in Hamon shu (Wave patterns), a multi-volume work brought out at the beginning of the 20th century. Both these works would have acted as a kind of go-to guide for Japanese craftsmen looking to adorn their wares with wave and ripple patterns. The designs would have found their way onto swords (both blades and handles) and associated paraphernalia (known as “sword furniture”), as well as lacquerware, Netsuke, religious objects, and a host of other items.
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Well, it’s 91F at the end of September so we’re in the creek after a sweaty, hectic day. (at Laughing Earth)

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